97. Blowjobs, Deep Oral, Safety & What Men Misunderstand

✋ Stop pushing her head down…it kills arousal.  And no… it’s not just “her preference.”

It’s biology.
It’s safety.
It’s the throat’s natural protection response and most men have never been taught this.

This episode breaks down EXACTLY why deep oral sometimes feels impossible for women,

and why it has nothing to do with skill…
and everything to do with how her body is designed.

Inside this episode, we dive deep 😉 into:

🧬 The science: throat anatomy, safety muscles & the gag reflex as a survival mechanism
🫁 Why forcing depth shuts her down: the same safety system as the vagina
😭 Why she chokes or pulls away, even when she wants to please you
🔥 How to make deeper oral actually possible by understanding how her body opens
💦 Why safety increases lubrication, depth and pleasure
🧠 Porn conditioning & why men misunderstand “deep throat”
💋 Why women feel shame about gag reflexes and why they shouldn’t
🌡️ What creates throat expansion naturally: breath, saliva, rhythm, control
👄 How men can actually get MORE pleasure by slowing down, not forcing it
❤️ And how both partners can feel more connected, confident and turned on

This episode isn’t about stopping deep oral.
It’s about understanding what her body needs so deep oral is BETTER.

If you’ve ever wondered:

“Why does she gag?”
“Why won’t she go deeper?”
“Do women even enjoy this?”
“Am I doing something wrong?”

…this is the episode that will answer everything you’ve never been taught.

Listen now and send this to your partner. Trust me.

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