88. You can't force or fake your feminine energy

We say we’re in our feminine… but let’s be real, most of the time we’re f*cking not.
Lighting candles, journaling, running a bubble bath, it looks soft, but underneath? We’re still in control, still in our head, still in our masculine.

This episode (yep, another car chat - apologies for the audio, but the message is 🔥) is me being brutally honest about the difference between doing femininity and actually being in it. A kinesiology session cracked me open to how much I was still performing instead of surrendering.

Here’s what we unpack:
🩷 The sneaky ways women fake softness (and why it leaves us drained)
🩷 Why rituals aren’t the same as true surrender
🩷 How pleasure feels wildly different when you stop performing and start allowing
🩷 The truth about why you can’t control your way into flow

If you’ve been trying all the “feminine hacks” but still feel stuck in your head or disconnected from your body, this is going to land.

Because you can’t fake surrender. You can only allow it.

✨ Listen in, my love.

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