86. The reason couples feel so confused in their relationship
Relationships don’t just blow up overnight. The cracks start small.
That feeling of being “off.” The resentment that creeps in. The silent question: why aren’t we on the same page anymore?
Ever sat in your relationship thinking:
👉 “We love each other, so why does it still feel off?”
👉 “Why do I feel like I’m giving everything and still not being met?”
👉 “Why does it seem like we’re speaking two different languages?”
The problem isn’t you, it’s that no one ever taught us what’s really driving men and women underneath it all.
For women, that driver is a connection first with ourselves, then with others. For men, its purpose is their sense of drive, direction, and contribution. And when those two aren’t in sync? That’s when the cracks appear. Not because the love is gone, but because the needs don’t line up.
In this raw (yep, car-recorded 🚗💨) episode, I unpack:
🩷 Why women confuse connection with giving too much to others instead of themselves
🩷 How men chase purpose so hard they forget presence
🩷 The exact gap that leaves couples feeling “off” and second-guessing their love
🩷 Simple shifts to start equalising these needs so your relationship can thrive
This isn’t a polished “how-to guide.” It’s a real, in-the-moment truth bomb for anyone sitting in their relationship wondering what’s missing.
Because love doesn’t disappear overnight. But confusion can take its place if you don’t understand what’s really driving you both.
🎧 Tune in now! This might be the perspective shift you didn’t even know you needed.
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